Written by Well, this is correspondence from the now girlfriend of the man that molested my daughter. I tried to warn her about him and to ask her to protect her daughter. Now I’m warning the world!!
I know you don’t know me, and I’m not sure if you’ve ever heard about me. But, my name is Mikki. I was engaged to Greg Allen years ago and it’s my understanding that you are involved with him now. Please don’t misunderstand the intent of this message, but I just want to warn you.
Back in 2000, Greg molested my daughter. He was arrested, served time and just got off of his 10 year probation from it. I saw the pics of your daughter and it scared me to death. My daughter was 12 when he molested her and your daughter looks around the same age. I just REALLY want to tell you what I wish with all my heart that someone would have told me…..to be careful with him around your daughter. There have been other things, and I pray he tells you about them.
I’m not trying to cause confusion of any kind. I just wanted to warn you and in that…hopefully protect your daughter. If you would like to speak to me, please feel free to call me at 404-454-3836. It’s my business phone, but I am the only one that answers it.
If you have any doubt that I’m telling you the truth, you can run his name on the GBI’s Sexual Offender website at
http://services.georgia.gov/gbi/gbisor/SexualOffenderDetails.jsp?action=SexualOffenderDetails&sexualoffenderId=83616DB9 (the link is below too). Or, you can check the DeKalb County Sherriff’s office at
Again, this is just to warn you to be careful with your daughter around him. Do with the information as you will. I just wish someone had warned me before it happened to my daughter.
Mikki
Mikki:First I want to say I am truly sorry for what happened to your daughter and I understand your pain. Now, let’s just step a back a minute and be honest with yourself because as you said you don’t know me and I only know about you. I am very aware of who you are and Greg’s past. Since the day I met Greg he has been very upfront and honest about his past.
I am taking your message exactly the way you meant it and that is you attempting to hurt and embarrass this man for what he did to your daughter and the betrayal and embarrassment he caused you. If your email had intent to warn people you would have been warning people from the day he got out from serving his time, instead you wait until only after he has finished his probation. He has been at the same job and his address has been posted on the GBI website if your intent was to warn you had plenty of opportunity.
It is my understanding that you spoke to his mom to relay a message and expressed forgiveness towards him for what he had done and peace with GOD. If your intent was not to TRY to start confusion you would not have called this man’s job and demand to speak to not just his manager but the owner about your under age daughter (that is well over 18yrs old) and you would not have went through the trouble of looking him up on Facebook and going through his friends all 129 of them I might add and their pictures and then personalizing an email at 12am after probably being at work all day long and all of this only after he has finished his probation, not while on probation.
Now as far as my daughter is concerned my daughter is not anywhere near what your daughters age was at the time. Somewhere in this message I believe there was some good intent as a concerned mother but that genuine purpose I think was lost by your anger and hurt that you still feel. I hope that you get some much needed therapy, prayer and there are support groups for people that have had sexual abuse done to them or have children that have been sexually abused.
If you are concerned about anybody’s child it should be yours she is the one going to his place of employment and if you are in fear of her safety or mental well being even though she is an ADULT, maybe you should tell her to keep her distance, I am very sure there are other places she could pick up something to eat.
You stated that your intent was to warn me well consider your message received and not that I have received your “WARNING” do not contact me anymore by any type of correspondence.
Now, because she asked me not to contact her anymore, I won’t. But, I WILL post my reply here:
Ms. Moments,
I’m going to reply to this step by step. First, really? Did you really just say all of that? Please don’t say you “understand” my pain unless you’ve been through it yourself. You can empathize….but you could NEVER understand my pain if you’ve never been there. Ok, let’s “step back a minute and be honest with myself”. I’m glad he was honest with you. You are probably the first person he’s been honest with about his past. I can ASURE you that you DON’T know about EVERYTHING!!! If you did, you would know that my daughter was not the ONLY one! During the process of pressing charges against him, I found out that there were SEVERAL more. I was the only one that locked him up!!! And, if you DO know about the many others that he’s hurt….then I truly feel sorry for you that your self esteem is so low that you would deal with someone like that.
My message WAS to warn you. It was not to hurt and embarrass him!! I don’t give a damn about him!!! How in the world can me telling you that he molested my daughter, hurt and embarrass him?!!!! I’m not understanding that. If it were to really hurt and embarrass him, HE WOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT!!!! Stop saying “what he did to your daughter”….say what it is….HE MOLESTED MY DAUGHTER!!!!!!! Are you hurt and embarrassed to say that your “man” molested my daughter? He DID hurt me because he changed my daughter’s life forever! And, God knows that I wish I felt then…the way I feel now. As far as not warning people from the day he got out. You just don’t know how big of a regret that is of mine. I wish I would have felt then…the way I feel now! I would have warned EVERY SINGLE PERSON that I knew he EVER came in contact with!!!!! I didn’t wait until “only after he finished his probation”. When I found out that he is talking to the very young lady that he MOLESTED….THAT’S when I knew that he was STILL not right and I knew I had to do my part and warn people. I didn’t know…hell, I didn’t WANT to know where he worked. I didn’t know until she told me that he was talking to her…..so where’s the “plenty of opportunity”? I knew his address….yes….because it’s listed on the Sex Offender’s website. But, why would I go and see the man that molested my daughter?!!!!
Your understanding is correct. In going to one of my friend’s funeral, not too far from his mother’s house….I did stop through and told him that I forgave him. And, you know what, to be 100% as honest as I can be right now…..I did forgive him. But, sweetheart, that forgiveness had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with him! That forgiveness was MINE! I know that God asks us to forgive and I felt it was my duty to forgive him as God forgives me my trespasses. But, see….my sense of forgiveness was SO VERY warped back then. I’ve grown up since then and I NOW know what forgiveness TRULY is. And again….my forgiveness has NOTHING to do with him!!! I forgive him from God. I now know that forgiveness is NOT allowing it to rule my life like it did for so many years. My forgiveness was also for blaming myself for ever meeting him….and then he molested my daughter. Even though I STILL wish that I’d NEVER met him…..I forgive myself for ever blaming myself for ever meeting him. I called him job because at his job…..HE SPOKE TO MY DAUGHTER….THE VERY GIRL HE MOLESTED!!!!!!! Where is that right? And, common sense…of which he obviously CAN’T have much of…..would tell him that if he comes ANYWHERE near her, to walk the other way!!!! When I called his job, I was NOT going to speak to the manager. I TRIED to get to the owner, but the manager gave me a hard time and basically said that I HAD to tell him in order to get to the owner. So, I did what I had to do. I NEVER told them that she is now underage. That’s a lie! Sweetheart, I didn’t look through all of his friends and his pictures. That statement made me chuckle. Do you really think that I would take time out of my life to do that? lol We had a mutual friend on facebook who I thought was “dealing with him” and I called to warn HER!!! She in turn told me who YOU were. I then took it upon myself to warn you once I saw your daughter. It really broke my heart and I began to pray that he had not molested her. And, I wanted to warn you before he ever could. And, as far as not “warning” people while on probation….when he came over my close friends house with a little girl…I think the girl was around 3….anyway, he came over my friend’s house with the little girl…BY HIMSELF!!!! Mind you, he was STILL on probation! I IMMEDIATELY called his probation officer to tell him that he was alone with a young child and told him what happened. So, don’t tell me that I didn’t warn people “while he was on probation”. If I heard of ANYTHING about him that concerned him and ANY child….I IMMEDIATELY contacted his probation officer. So, sorry, you’re wrong there!
I’m glad to hear that your daughter is not that age. But, whatever age she is….PLEASE PROTECT HER FROM HIM!!! As far as MY anger and hurt……I believe I will be angry and hurt until the day that I die about him molesting my daughter. I have that right!! HE MOLESTED MY DAUGHTER!!!! And, how you got anger and hurt confused with genuine concern for a fellow mother’s child is beyond me. I guess he’s groomed your mind already. And, for your daughter’s sake….that breaks my heart. I have gotten professional therapy and right now…I have the BEST THERAPIST ever….God! And, you are right….there are several support groups for people like me. And, with God’s grace…I will have my own for people like me….who’s “mate” molested their children.
Wait, so you’re telling me that I should not be concerned about other children this monster may molest? I pray that you are not saying that….really I do. My concern IS for my daughter sweetheart and every other child that has been….or will be….molested. Let me explain something to you….when you are molested….it doesn’t matter if you are an “ADULT” or not……it will affect you until the day you die! I hope you have never been through it and I pray your daughter never has and never will go through it too! It’s just amazing to me that you are blaming the young lady he molested, for going to get something to eat where she didn’t even know he worked….when HE talked to HER. Wow!! Really?!!!! She can go to some other places to eat? Really?!! Do you think she would have gone in there if she knew he worked there? Really?!!!
Don’t worry, the only way I’ll be contacting you is through prayer sweetheart!!!! And, you know what, I thank you for this email and the way you wrote it…because it’s shown me that I’ve TRULY grown up. Because before, I would have ripped you a new one…..but now I see how truly messed up your mind is and I just simply feel sorry for you. And, for that growth in me…..TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!
Mikki
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Healed a LOT from the pain.....now healing food addiction. 
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