It never fails. You start to eat healthy or working out and someone asks you why do you want to lose weight?
My normal answer is ummmmm ’cause I wanna live! Duh!
After I stopped being a smart ass, I sat down and really thought about it.
I said to myself, I said, “Self?” Myself said, “Huh?” I said, “Why do you want to lose weight…for real, for real?”
So, that made me start writing down what my real reasons were. Then I thought, heeeey….it might help you too.
I mean, I know I want to be healthy, but what’s going to keep me going day to day?
You know I’m a talker, so I came up with a LOT! Some people would come up with about 10-25. Me? Nope!
What do you think? Did I forget anything?
- To have more energy.
- To not have people move to the side when I walk past them in the corridor.
- To be able to run.
- To buy normal size clothes off the rack.
- To step foot in ‘normal’ clothing stores.
- To wear jeans.
- To wear smaller lingerie.
- To fit comfortably into a plane seat.
- To be able to wear calf length boots (the big legs yanno?)
- To be “fine-ER”.
- To feel better about myself and my body.
- To have sex standing up!
- So I won’t always think people are talking about me.
- To fit into booths without getting that “squished” feeling.
- To not be out of breath after or during “normal” activities.
- To not have to worry about my pants wear thin between my thighs.
- No more elastic waistbands!
- To be able to cross my arms sitting down without having them rest on my belly.
- To be able to cross my legs.
- To want my full-body picture taken.
- To be able to say that I did it!
- To live a longer, healthier life.
- To be able to wrap a normal-sized towel around myself.
- To be able to wear cuter, more stylish store bought clothes.
- So when I see someone from my past that I had a crush on I can rub it in their face.
- I don’t want to be the “big girl”.
- So I can prove all the people that said I can’t do it wrong.
- Victoria’s Secret..nuff said!
- So I can wear the skinny high heels instead of the wider ones.
- To be able to wear a bathing suit without shame or a T-shirt over it.
- So I won’t feel so tired all of the time.
- Thigh-high boots! (Just a wee bit of the freak in me.)
- To be able to enjoy sex more! (its good now, but the thought of standing on my head too?)
- So I won’t always have to be worrying about if you could see my “rolls”.
- No more double chin!
- Tie both my shoes without having to take a break between them with both feet on the floor.
- See my ‘kitty cat’ without having to look in the mirror.
- Lie flat on my back without feeling that my boobies are trying to suffocate me.
- To learn to swim.
- To swim to the bottom of a swimming pool (I am so buoyant now I can’t get to the bottom).
- Buy a size that doesn’t have any X’s in it.
- To sit down in the tub without touching the side.
- Not have to use the handicapped bathroom in a store because I don’t have enough room in the regular stalls.
- Not have to grease my ass to fit into the seats in a movie theater.
- Wear seat belts in the back seat of a car.
- Ride a bicycle again.
- Go bra-less in public (I am not holding my breath on this one).
- Walking…just being able to walk long distances with ease.
- Jogging…(it’s hard to believe I will ever jog!)
- Sex!….nuff said.
- Having control over me! Enjoying food.
- Climbing stairs.
- Realizing that I am worth the effort it takes.
- Knowing that ‘screwing up’ one day, one week…even a year….will not make or break me.
- Seeing my doctor’s face every time I see him!
- Realizing that I can get back on program just as quickly as I came off.
- Every aspect of my health improving.
- Realizing I never really grew up….and that I never want to!
- People I know walking right past me because they don’t recognize me. (I can’t wait for this one!)
- Knowing that the people I care most about have only benefited from me putting myself first.
- Learning how to forgive myself for not being perfect.
- Knowing how good I feel when I treat my body right.
- Watching people’s faces when I tell them how much weight I’ve lost.
- For people that ask if they can ‘touch me’ to feel inspired to lose weight.
- Learning that the small things make such a difference.
- Going on rides at the amusement park..and fitting.
- Being aware that it’s the quality of my life that matters most.
- Not being so afraid of getting the diabetes that runs in my family.
- To get a full hug!
- Knowing that I am doing the best that I can do for myself.
- Fitting through turnstiles.
- People actually offering me food.
- Being able to weight myself on a regular scale.
- Wearing something and actually liking how I look in it!
- Being able to shop in the ‘normal’ section of a store.
- Having a lap!
- Not being afraid of breaking the chair by sitting in it.
- Being able to sit comfortably.
- Finding bones I never knew I had!
- Finding muscles I never knew I had!
- Sleeping better and waking up more refreshed.
- Setting a good example for my loved ones and being able to teach them the tools for good health.
- Knowing nothing tastes as good as I feel.
- Knowing how proud my grandmother would have been of me for taking control.
- Having the benefit of ‘being there’ and not judging others because of their size!
- The attention I get from men! Yup, I love it!
- Being empowered enough to realize that I can do anything I set my mind to!
- Being able to help and inspire other people to help themselves as I continue help myself.
- My mate being able to pick carry me to the bed. (Could you imagine?)
- Having leftovers!
- Wearing sexy-er lingerie.
- My knees being so much happier!
- My ankles being so much happier!
- My hips being so much happier!
- Being cold all the time…instead of sweating all of the time like I do.
- To have my feet quit going to sleep when I sit for a long time.
- The woman who said…. “WOW…you mean you used to really be that BIG?”
- No more broken toilet seats.
- Having my “before” picture tattooed on my forehead.
- The track marks on my treadmill!
- Being able to jump up and into an 18″ window after locking myself out of my house!
- To not just exist through life…..but to LIVE!
- Someone actually telling me they want to look like me.
- To feel proud and in control of my life!! (This is the most important one!)
Whew! That was a lot huh? I wonder how many more I’ll think of later.
3 comments
Oh I have one….being able to buy valentine’s leggings at walmart for $1.49 ???
lol…that’s a good one too Mandy!
Mikki, You have got this my friend!